
hey there, friend! I'm Emily.

Intimacy coach, dog mom (x2), collared submissive kitten (to the kindest Daddy Dom), polyamorous, and... coffee addict.
Everyone is deserving of feeling safe — within their bodies, their relationship(s), their (sometimes wonky) brains.
I spent years living outside of my body: unsure of how I felt and why, how to overcome those feelings and find my feet again, and to communicate these feelings to others. The ground continued to slip out from underneath my feet, and my brain right along with it; it was debilitating. I couldn't function, or find solace in others, or feel comfortable in my own skin.
Now, I have learned the tools to find solace, peace, and (even) a home within my body again — and, that's what we're doing in Safety Spaces. You deserve to find that ground underneath your feet, too, friend.
In Safety Spaces, there's an option for you:
The Basic Program
A community-driven space where we're working together to actually feel what our bodies are experiencing, create boundaries that emphasize (and make space for) this feeling, and effectively communicate (to others, and ourselves) where our heads, bodies, and hearts feel the most safe.
All humans in the basic program have access to:
- 24/7 Community Discord.
- biweekly coaching calls (2hr.) held over Zoom.
- Access to my full product suite (sub space, Patreon Discord, finding safety in distance [workshop]).
- ~10% discount on future programs / workshops.
The VIP Program
While still favoring community, Safety Spaces' VIP option are for the humans who are ready to dive deeply into their own process and work 1:1 with me to find, cultivate, and create lasting safety within their own bodies, partnerships, and etc.
VIP humans have the same benefits as the basic program, as well as:
- 2hr. private calls (on Zoom).
- private 1:1 messaging (over Discord messenger).
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I pour into myself and remind myself how I'm safe within myself... I feel much more comfortable and confident in myself and how I view and approach my relationships.
Kayla Hicks, client
We've got answers for your questions.
If you have a question that's not answered here, find me on IG (@coach_emilyy) and ask me there!
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Come join us in Safety Spaces.
On the other side of survival is a safe, thriving environment — which is where we’re supposed to be.
You deserve to be there, too, friend. You're deserving of that calm and happiness, of that ease, of feeling seen and heard for your experience. This is Safety Spaces.