Leaning into our body's natural desires is hard — especially when they're met with external (and, okay... internal) shame. If you're ready to finally lean into your submission, and the power exchange you've been watering at the mouth over, you need: Sub Space.

Sub Space is an inclusive, supportive community space for submissive humans of all levels who want to dive deeply into their desires, submission, and what turns them on — the more taboo, the better.

 

Take me to Sub Space.

Leaning into our body's desires is hard — especially when they're met with external (and, okay... internal) shame. But, if you're ready to finally lean into your submissive desires, you need: Sub Space.

Sub Space is an inclusive, supportive community space for submissive humans of all levels who want to dive deeply into their desires, submission, and what turns them on — the more taboo, the better.
Join Sub Space.

Kink is shadow-banned, bestie. (And, shamed.)

And, it's hard to have the confidence in our desires (or, even communicate them at all) because of it. Who wants to ask their partner to try something new, and spicy, if it's going to be met with confusion and be shut down?

You know the fantasies, too: a desire to play with your stuffies and watch cartoons with a Daddy Dom, or to be bent over a knee, or even to be called a "good girl, princess," midway through your day — and feel that flutter in your chest as you do.

When we have issue articulating these desires, though — whether to a current partner, or one that we've just matched with on a dating app — the shame spirals. We can't talk about it, so how're we going to ever participate?

That's why you need Sub Space: a self-paced program created and taught by a submissive who was just as lost as you. Sub Space walks you through every step of your submissive journey, including:

  • the BDSM test, and how we can begin to identify our desires.
  • crafting our submission using my exclusive Submissive Definition framework.
  • mapping our ideal Dom(me), dynamic, and the feelings that come with it — so that we have the confidence to find this person in real life.
  • the vetting process , and we can discern red / green flags before establishing a dynamic.

And, literally so much more.

hi, I'm Emily.

Collared kitten (to a wonderful Daddy Dom, Chef), polyamorous, Dog Mom, coffee addict, and absolute masochist. (And, sometimes, a big ol' brat.)

My submissive journey started by accident, when the first man I hooked up with after opening my relationship asked, "Hey, have you ever been tied up before?" 

During this journey, though, I encountered both the brilliance that submission can provide — and, had three brilliant Dom(me)s to show for it — and, hit one too many bumps and irritations along the way. Fucked one too many humans who called themselves a Dominant — and, well... wasn't — that took advantage of my power.

Sub Space is a conglomeration of learnings, experience, and celebrations that helped me get my power back. For good.

Okay, I want Sub Space.

"I so, so, so highly recommend Sub Space. My dynamic with Daddy is to die for. So much love, so much kinky exploration, such safety. Totally from the work I did with you in Sub Space."

— Sub Space graduate (remaining anonymous)

Let's find your payment plan.

Every option is a good option, but there's a best one for you.

When you sign up (with any payment plan), you receive:

  • 10hr.+ of comprehensive training videos.
  • Worksheets to immediately integrate teachings.
  • Immediate community Discord access.
  • Discounts for all future programs & workshops.

6mon. payment

$70/m

(card or Paypal)

6MON. PLAN

3mon. payment

$137/m

(card or Paypal)

3MON. PLAN

pay in full

$397

(card or Paypal)

PAY IN FULL

Connect with your subby side.

Sub Space is more than a program about "being a good sub."

It's a place that supports you as you discover why your submission matters, how you can define it, and, most importantly, how to fully embody your submission — without falling into a shame spiral, or letting other's opinions define your desires.

Because, well, you're worth making a big deal out of, and so are your desires. Period.

Here's what we're learning in Sub Space:

01

Learn the basics of kink / BDSM, and take the BDSM Test to get a better understanding of your arousal template.

02

We dive into the Submissive Definition: my signature framework that creates a story around your submission.

03

Learn how to outline your ideal power dynamic, as well as learn what Dominance aligns with your submission.

04

Learn how to outline your ideal Dom(me) / dynamic, using what we've discovered as your Submissive Definition.

05

Safety in kink: red flags to understand and avoid, safe sex practices, and what to do when you're on a first date.

06

Dating apps. We learn what apps are best for kinksters / which aren't, and how to find your ideal Dom on all apps.

07

Learn how to prepare for / establish a power dynamic around distance. (Whether a stark LDR, or on a vacation.)

08

Basics of establishing an in-person power dynamic: rules, boundaries, protocols, & what to do if the dynamic ends.

"Your course is amazing... Thank you for helping me learn more about myself and unlearning the negative aspects of this life."

— Sub Space graduate (remaining anonymous)

We have answers for your questions.

Embarking on a journey of self-discovery is no easy feat — and, we have answers for the most common questions. (If you have a question that isn't answered here, reach out to me directly at [email protected].)

Your desires have waited long enough.

In Sub Space, you're seen, and heard, and understood for who you are and the things that you enjoy. You're not weird, and not bad for the things you enjoy — and, they're worth discovering.

Take me to Sub Space.